Are Rescue Dogs a Good Pick for Young Kids?

While rescue dogs can be loving, docile, excellent pets – I have three and have never run into problems – the truth is, you don’t always know what your new furry family member’s past life experience has been. Mine came from puppy mills where they were used in breeding, and that made them cautious, a little slow to come around to the concept of play, and for a long time, having a flight (versus fight) approach to any change in situation.

But many others hail from violent situations, and while that doesn’t necessarily make them randomly aggressive, it can result in food guarding if they haven’t been fed regularly, attacking dogs or people they perceive as a threat, and being a challenge to train if they don’t respond to rewards or praise.

What to Look for When Adopting a Rescue

The short answer to whether a rescue dog is a good pick for young kids is yes! Never overlook the opportunity to adopt versus shop because there are so many wonderful pets looking for the right family. But before you jump in with both feet, do your homework to set both you and your pooch up for success.

• • Work with a reputable rescue organization. Dogs that have been removed from stressful situations need to be properly socialized for a period of time before being offered up for adoption. If you’re unsure where to start, a well-known rescue like PetSmart is a good option. With over 1500 stores across the United States, it’s a safe, easy way to start your search for a rescue pet.

• • Has the dog been fostered? This is the best way to observe how well a potential pet interacts with children, other dogs or cats. Listen to the insights the foster parents will share and use them to help shape your decision.

• • Get as much information on the dog’s history as possible. Was he a surrender? If so, why? Was he brought in from outside the country? Get the paperwork on his vaccines. Has the dog been spayed or neutered? When, and at what age, as later spaying of females can result in health issues down the line.

• • Consider the age of your dog when looking for the right fit. If a family pet for kids, you may find that older dogs won’t appreciate the energy level of the younger set. Yet, if you work away from home, a young puppy in need of training will require all hands-on deck – which is perfect for older kids and teenagers who can help out and bond with their new pet.

• • When planning the care of your dog, take into account who will be exercising him. If young children are involved, a larger dog may be too challenging when out walking. If your dog seems to have a high-energy breed in him (think terrier, hound, or retriever), you’ll need to allow for multiple walks each day. Do you have the time and do your kids have the patience?

• • Teach the 3-3-3 rule for dogs to your children. It refers to the 3 days your newly adopted dog needs to decompress after arriving at your home. Then, 3 weeks to learn and accept your family's routine, followed by 3 months for him to feel comfortable in his new environment. Explaining the why behind this rule to your children helps with bonding and building compassion for animals.

Above all, meet and spend time with the dog before you commit to the adoption. While a pure-bred dog’s temperament may be more predictable, you’re working with many different factors when adopting a rescue. From a mix of different breeds to an unknown history, and natural anxiety when meeting new faces.

Plan to spend time with your little buddy before taking him home - take him out for a walk, have him interact with all family members including other pets, and watch for any triggers that may result in snapping or any form of aggression. Because when children are involved, unpredictable behaviors from both sides, need to be considered.