Can Cats be Disciplined? You Might Be Surprised!

While renowned for being shameless, you may just be able to win the battle of the wills when it comes to taking charge.
Okay, we’re not talking about training your cat to perform tricks or come to you when called. Those are the instances where offering up positive reinforcement can help bring out the best in your little gal pal. Or at least a little cooperation.
This is more about when naughty behaviors are/have been happening and she needs to understand right then and there, that they are unacceptable. Biting, scratching, piddling on carpets, scratching furniture, attacking your other pets… the list goes on. And holding off to reward her when she isn’t doing these things won’t help her connect the dots between what’s acceptable and what isn’t.
For those who cohabit with a feline, you already know that she has a mind of her own. And more often than not, it differs from what you have planned. So, when naughty behaviors are constant and performed in front of you, you need to use that opportunity to correct her and reinforce that it needs to stop.
The first step is to recognize that she is not a dog and won’t respond to your efforts the way your pooch would. I mean, cats really are shameless and she’s never going to bow her head and retreat to a corner the way a dog caught pillaging the kitchen garbage would do. However, similar to dogs, cats do have short- and long-term memory – which is why they can be trained. And it's this same memory that can work against you if your pet has repeatedly gotten away with bad behavior. Why would she now stop?
Let's start with whether you can identify her rationale for all those dirty deeds. Because you’re well on your way to stopping it if you can. Scratching furniture legs may be alleviated by simply providing her with an upright scratching post. If she piddles outside her litter box, changing to a new, unscented fill may help. Similarly, if she likes to climb up on counters, having a cat tree of similar height where she can see out the window, could be a solution.
If not, that’s where passive discipline comes into play.
When she’s cuddling on your lap and suddenly bites or scratches, it’s time to stand up and walk away from her for a few minutes. If she wants back on your lap (they always do), allow her to climb back up but be prepared to remove her if she resumes biting or scratching. And continue to repeat this form of reaction to her biting. Over time, she’ll connect those dots.
And use deterrents to prevent her from engaging in bad behavior in the first place. For example, rather than yelling or spritzing her with a water bottle when she starts scratching your favorite soft furnishings, use double-sided tape to make it much less appealing. If she loves to jump on kitchen counters or the dining room table, try using tin foil that crinkles or a vibration alarm that delivers a quick, high-pitched sound the moment it detects her motion.
The key to passive discipline is that it all happens when you’re not there. Loudly scolding or spritzing with a water bottle may deter her in that moment however it also makes her wary of you. Meaning she will undoubtedly continue her wayward ways… but will wait until you’re not around.
Now, if you’re lucky enough to catch your feline exhibiting good behavior – using her scratching post, choosing her cat tree, opting for her litter box – treats and praise are always welcome. And that's how you seque into positive reinforcement.

Sharing space with three seriously judgy Schnoodles and 2 felines who prefers to be left alone. #LivingMyBestLife
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