Do Cats Miss Their Owners? Here's What Science Says

Rachel M.
by Rachel M.

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Cats are famously independent. Unlike their canine counterparts, who leap with joy at the mere sound of their human’s footsteps, felines often maintain a mysterious emotional distance.


But behind those cool, almond-shaped eyes, is there longing when you're away? Do cats actually miss their owners? Let’s look into it. 

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1. The myth of the aloof cat

For years, cats have been cast as aloof, solitary creatures. But, recent studies have begun to challenge that stereotype.

In fact, researchers are increasingly discovering that cats form strong bonds with their human companions. They may just express attachment differently than dogs.

2. Scientific study on cat-human bonds

The Oregon State University Study (2019)

One of the most revealing studies on feline attachment was conducted by Oregon State University. Researchers used a test commonly applied to infants and dogs—the “secure base test”—to evaluate the relationship between cats and their owners.


Findings:

  • About 65% of cats and kittens formed a secure bond with their humans.
  • These cats showed signs of distress when their caregiver left, and relief and relaxation when they returned.
  • Their reactions were similar to what is observed in securely attached infants or puppies.


This evidence suggests that many cats do, in fact, miss their humans when they’re gone, even if they don’t show it with dramatic tail-wagging or whining.

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3. Signs your cat misses you

Though cats may not throw a welcome-home party, there are subtler signs they feel your absence:


  • Increased vocalization (especially if unusual for your cat)
  • Changes in appetite
  • Hiding or acting withdrawn
  • Increased affection or clinginess upon your return
  • Sleeping in your bed or on your clothes


Cats may express stress or longing through behavior changes rather than overt affection. So, if your kitty knocks over a plant while you're gone, it might be more than just mischief.

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4. Can cats get lonely?

Yes, cats are social creatures, just in a different way to dogs. Prolonged loneliness can lead to:

  • Separation anxiety
  • Over-grooming or excessive licking
  • Litter box avoidance
  • Depression or lethargy
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5. How to help your cat cope when you’re away

If your schedule keeps you away for long periods, there are some simple ways you can help keep your feline content:


The bottom line

So, do cats miss their owners? The answer is: Absolutely — most do! While they may not always greet you at the door or cry when you leave like dogs do, cats are very capable of forming strong emotional attachments and can feel sad when you’re away.


Understanding your cat's emotional world not only deepens your bond but also helps you better support their well-being. Because at the end of the day, even the most independent feline may just be waiting quietly by the window… for you. 


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