People Who Experience Pet Loss Don’t Get the Support They Need

Lisa Selvaggio
by Lisa Selvaggio

A survey found that more than one in four individuals whose pet passed away felt that they didn’t receive any support. Anyone who has experienced pet loss knows the profound sadness it causes, and research has even found that the death of a pet can lead to prolonged grief disorder, so the lack of support can be even more hurtful.

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Gourmet Gift Baskets commissioned a survey of adults in the United States who had experienced the death of a pet or person. The survey was conducted in August 2026, and a total of 1,139 responses were collected.  


Despite wanting their loss to be acknowledged by others, results showed that people got less of every type of support when they lost a pet versus when they lost a human.


A Lack of Every Type of Support After Pet Loss


Survey respondents answered questions about deaths that affected them most, the support they got and the support they wanted, and the amount of time that they would have welcomed a check-in from others.


Of those whose most significant loss was a pet, 27.5% received none of the 11 types of support that the survey measured, yet 42.3% of those mourning pets wanted others to acknowledge that the death happened. Pet mourners also stated that check-ins were still welcome for a median of 21 days.


The forms of support included in this survey, and the percentage of pet mourners who received that support, were:


  • Text, email, message, card: 33.6%
  • Telephone or video call: 28.2%
  • Visit or in-person companionship: 23.5%
  • Flowers or plant: 10.7%
  • Non-food comfort gift: 9.4%
  • Prepared meal, food delivery, food gift basket: 8.1%
  • Help with errands, chores, or transportation: 8.1%
  • Grocery, restaurant, or meal-delivery gift card: 4.7%
  • Donation made in memory of the person or pet: 4.7%
  • Help with paperwork, arrangements, or planning: 4.7%
  • Financial support: 3.4%


A simple acknowledgement of their loss was what pet mourners said they wanted most. So, if you know someone who has lost a pet, consider at least sending them a short message to share your sympathies and let them know that you care.


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Lisa Selvaggio
Lisa Selvaggio

Lisa Selvaggio is a freelance writer and editor, and our resident cats-pert, with certifications in pet nutrition and pet first aid. She enjoys producing content that helps people understand animals better so they can give their pets a safe and happy home.

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