Study Finds Dogs Really Are Surrogates to Having Children

Mary Simpson
by Mary Simpson

Research finds pooches are not only a key member of the household, they've become the much-loved child in a childless family.

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For those of us living with pets versus kids, we totally buy into the concept. But for some, it’s hard to get their head around the fact that singles and couples are opting out of parenthood for something more akin to “pethood”. And it’s not just happening in North America - it’s a global phenomenon that is seeing a drop in birth rates and a spike in dog ownership.


Given the average cost to raise a child in North America is projected to be in the neighbourhood of $375,000 (USD) from birth to the age of 18… let’s not even get into post-secondary education… one may nod their head and agree that financially speaking, having a pet dog is a lot cheaper than having a kid. Let alone two or three kids.


But that’s not what’s driving this change in behavior.


You see, a journal known as European Psychologist threw the question out there. In short, with the decline in birth rate coupled with the increase in individuals confirming they view their dog as an integral part of the household, are people actually choosing dogs, not as an addition to the family, but as an intentional substitute for having children?


It was researchers from the Department of Ethology at Budapest’s Eotvos Lorand University who found an answer. It seems the family dog scratches the itch (so to speak) of our need to form a close emotional connection with something living and breathing to be dependent on us. In this case, it’s not a child, but a surrogate – a pooch. And this dog-to-human relationship ultimately provides the same positive emotions and sense of purpose as those experienced by parents of young children.


What’s interesting is that all the devotion and emotional demands needed to care for a dog are in fact, what’s reinforcing to owners - who might have been sitting on the fence regarding children - that they may not be ready, willing, or prepared to take on the rigours of raising kids. Sort of like a dry run, they’ve found that the all-encompassing draw on your personal freedom that comes with a dog isn’t necessarily something they’re prepared to opt in to on a larger scale.


Per Laura Gillet, a PhD student at the University, “Some owners might see their dog as a child surrogate to spoil, others actively choose to have dogs and not children”.


It’s down to freedom of choice. However, the one thing the researchers did note was a concern for individuals assigning infantile traits to their pets that could result in overprotective caring behaviors. Because in the end, you’ll encourage serious emotional and behavioural problems in the dog. Hmmm... just like would happen with a child.


Mary Simpson
Mary Simpson

Sharing space with three seriously judgy Schnoodles and 2 felines who prefers to be left alone. #LivingMyBestLife

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