How to Safely Welcome a Skittish Rescue Cat into Your Home

While we may feel the warm and fuzzies when we bring a rescue cat into our home, it’s important to remember that they don’t always feel the same way. The new living arrangement looks strange, smells strange, and you’re feeding him foods he isn’t familiar with. Add to that, lots of sounds and that irritating habit you have of trying to pet him. What’s all that about?
We’d all like to think that a feline who has lived a rough life is appreciative of the food, shelter, and comfort we’re providing but the truth is, it’s going to take a while for you to earn that.
Whether this new cat is to become a new buddy to your existing pet or this is your first foray into pet ownership, it’s isn’t the same as adopting a young kitten. Life experience factors heavily into this new feline’s attitude and they’re likely to be cautious, combative, and ready to bolt if the opportunity presents itself.
Rest assured, it’s not you, it’s them. And there are several steps you can take to ease into this life transition.
Let’s Start at the Beginning
It all starts with how you bring them home. Most rescues don’t have the budget to invest in hard-sided carriers so you’ll be heading home with your feline in a protective cardboard box. Rather than that, take the time to purchase a new carrier in advance of the adoption process. Something well-ventilated with solid sides to keep her feeling safe but a metal front grid so that she can see where she’s being taken. This design also allows you to interact with her on the way home and to pass her little treats to try and keep her happily occupied. This two-door option from Amazon Basics is a perfect pick because you can load your new kitty in through the top or via the front. Whichever mode appeals to her need for control. And because it’s going to become her safe place for the next few weeks, it’s important that it be roomy enough for her to stretch out and feel comfortable, yet protected.
Assume Your Rescue Cat Will be Afraid
Everything is new to a rescue and despite your calming words and the many treats you keep tossing their way, your new pet is going to need to decompress before establishing any type of comfort level. So, when you arrive home with puss in that new carrier, drape it with a towel or blanket across the sides and place her in a separate space. It could be a bathroom, bedroom, basement… someplace where she can eventually get out and explore without fear of running into other pets or more new things she’ll need to process. Cuz she’s had enough for the immediate. Be sure to remove the front metal grate or tie it back so that it doesn’t flip shut and leave a frightened cat trapped outside her safe space and feeling vulnerable.
Prior to her arrival, be sure to have a new litter box in the dedicated space as well as new food and water bowls. I like this high-sided litter box option from Iris because it doesn’t have a cover. Animals can be intuitively cautious about how and where they urinate/defecate because the distraction can leave them vulnerable to animal attacks. My rescues were loathe to step into an enclosed litter box because they didn’t know who was lurking on the outside, ready to pounce. Yes, it was often one of my other cats being overly curious but it created angst. High sides prevent litter from being kicked out and scattered while the open top allows for a full 360-degree visual. Win-Win!
Gaining Their Confidence
Food, water, litter and a comfortable place to sleep. If you can tick all these boxes, then you’re okay to leave your new rescue alone for between 24 and 72 hours with minimal interruptions to clean and replenish. That’s the amount of time she’ll need to explore and de-stress. Initially, expect that she’ll want to hide. That’s okay, because over time, you will be encouraging her to come out and join you. Sit quietly in her room, talk to her, and eventually build the relationship through food and treats.
And once you have your cautious feline devouring cat treats from afar, try drawing her a little closer. Something like Inaba’s creamy cat food puree in a squeezable tube is sure to pique her interest and encourage her to come closer if she wants to lick and enjoy. Associating your scent and presence with something that’s both tasty and non-threatening is a great way to win confidence.
When it comes to petting your rescue, practice the three-second rule. Gently pet for three seconds, then stop and pause for three seconds. You’re watching for her to lean into it and encourage you to continue. That could be a nudge from her head or chin or even a raised paw. Once you’ve come to this stage, you can also consider introducing toys.
Time to Play
The safety of a wand-style cat toy is a smart choice. When your new pet’s tolerance for stimulation is unknown, it’s best to keep hands a safe distance away from claws and teeth. If she’s still being cautious, try tossing a few catnip toys in her direction to gauge her interest. Play is a great way to break down barriers, just don’t try to engage too soon. Remain seated while introducing all these fun new things and speak softly to her. Otherwise, you risk her retreating to her travel cage and waiting you out. And cats can wait a really long time.
If you’re concerned about your rescue spending too much time in a cramped travel cage, encourage her to stretch her legs a little with a tall cat tree. Not only will she be able to claw and climb her way to the top but she can also perch and watch the world go by while feeling safe.
Now, if your home is subject to loud, outside noises, consider “piping” in music that can create a white noise effect. Amazon and Spotify are just two ways to stream the sounds and tones that animals find soothing and are suitable for drowning out noise.
The Language of Food
Chow time is something all animals understand and look forward to. If you can sweeten the pot with wet cat food that delivers a winning tri-fecta of smell, texture, and flavor, you’ll be viewed in a seriously positive light. Now, if you have other pets they’ll also be intrigued by these scents and will naturally want to be included in the new menu. So, use this opportunity to “introduce” the new cat to existing pets. Yes, feeding time is an excellent way to break the ice… however it needs to be done with a door between them. Initially, place food bowls on either side of the door and allow your pets to “dine” together, yet without being in direct contact. They can hear the sounds of each other eating, smell their counterpart’s food, and, become aware of and used to, another animal in your home. But for now, they’re safely apart. Over time, plan to leave the door to your rescue cat’s safe room ajar so she can choose to leave if she wants but get back in if she needs.
Taking on a rescue is one of the most rewarding endeavours a pet parent can assume – and one you’ll never regret.

Sharing space with three seriously judgy Schnoodles and 2 felines who prefers to be left alone. #LivingMyBestLife
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