Dog Bucket Lists Offer a Perfect Way to Say Goodbye

Mary Simpson
by Mary Simpson

Whether ailing or aging, finding ways to celebrate your pet's favorite things satisfies the soul during a difficult time.

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So, you’ve noticed your pet slowing down. Maybe health issues are starting to creep in – arthritis, kidney concerns, sensory losses or a debilitating illness. Join the club!


We adjust the length of their walks, change up their food to something senior- or health-appropriate, and invest in cozy blankets and orthopedic beds to keep them comfortable.


But for anyone who has loved and lost a senior pet or one with a life-limiting illness, you know the next step leans into palliative care, and there is something sad and resigned to having to “give up” on our pets.


So, don’t just yet.


Turn their last years, or months, or days into a fun adventure created just for them. Yes, we’re talking bucket list, and it can deliver a bounty of enjoyable experiences for our pets and offer us a gentle way to ease into accepting the winding-down process.


Let’s Get Started!


Out and About

Not all dogs are fans of car rides, but if you live with a free-wheeling mutt who loves the open road, plan a daily “road trip”. It doesn’t have to be long or complex, just scout out fun destinations such as a leash-free park, a drive-through that offers dog treats (think Puppuccino cups) or even a takeaway burger (minus the condiments) they can get excited about. Even just 15 minutes of enjoying this type of activity can get a tired tail wagging.


Does your pet have favorite destination? Maybe a local park, forest, beach, waterpark, even just a treat-dispensing neighbor….? Plan to schedule these special-to-him destinations into your dog’s daily routine. And adapting to that slower-paced walk helps build anticipation (coz he knows where he’s going). If mobility issues are a concern, invest in a stroller or dog sling to keep your little buddy comfortable, close, and still excitedly engaged.


Time to Nosh

Turn meal-time into a highly anticipated event by upgrading those toppers. Grilled chicken, steak, or fish, over a bowl of kibble (or, even as their main meal) is a wow your dog deserves, and it’s going to generate hungry excitement as soon as the scent hits the air. For me, when the end is looming, all those healthy, low-carb/low-cal/low-fat/low-taste rules go out the window. Let’s pledge to indulge.


When his vision and hearing senses go, he is still able to “scent,” and for dogs, the olfactory cells in their noses reign supreme. So, hide high-value treats in low, easy-to-access locations throughout your living space. This not only encourages mental stimulation, movement, and sensory use but heightens his innate need to track and discover.


When to Slow It Down

We all know our dogs want to hang with us. If age or illness has zapped their energy, why not plan to wind down the day by snuggling on the sofa. Orthopedic beds and cozy crates are great, but nothing beats a cushy blanket, plenty of snacks, and their favorite person taking no phone calls. This is the ultimate for a pet with compromised health that still wants to be close and included. Particularly if sundowner syndrome has kicked in and they’re feeling overwhelmed.


If you’ve never tried sound-bathing, it’s a popular therapy that introduces gentle, calming tones into your living environment. For dogs, it can reduce stress, promote relaxation and lower heart rates, with veterinarians and animal behaviorists enthusiastic about its ability to restore both physical and emotional wellness. You simply hunker down in a quiet, calm space with your little buddy, add some cozy blankets so he can lie down, then introduce low, soft sounds such as a singing bowl, gongs, or even chimes. Me? I’m not musically inclined, so I tap into the sound-bathing option on my home AI system.


Living with dogs in their final months can be emotionally challenging. But rising to the occasion, listening and responding to their needs, allows you to give back. And, unlike our pets, that never gets old.

 

Mary Simpson
Mary Simpson

Sharing space with three seriously judgy Schnoodles and 2 felines who prefers to be left alone. #LivingMyBestLife

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