Help! Is My Dog a Narcissist?

by Mary Simpson

Published: December 26th, 2024

Can lots of treats and attention become an expectation?

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While our pets may be prone to several human afflictions – such as obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) – one has to question whether they can also be susceptible to some of the other conditions typically associated with humans. I’m thinking about those quirky personality traits we hear so much about these days. More specifically, can that furry little sidekick with a clear sense of entitlement also be a (gulp) narcissist?

To be honest, NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) is defined as an individual with an exaggerated sense of self-importance that requires continual admiration. So, it should come as no surprise to any dog owner that I started to tick off a few of the boxes. And, when you consider that this type of disorder also means the individual struggles to understand or care about the feelings of others…. I’m suddenly recalling the many times my fur crew have taken over the sofa without a passing glance in my direction. Or when they decide they really do need a potty break… after I’ve headed off to bed. How about those manipulative puppy dog eyes when they want me to offer them the last of my breakfast/lunch/dinner/snack ? Are my dogs really that self-absorbed, or am I reading it wrong?

Given that narcissism is not necessarily genetic but can also be a learned trait, I question whether I could have unintentionally raised a pack of egotistical little pooches who have decided the only thing that matters in this world is them.

The short answer to whether dogs can be narcissists is no. They can’t.

You see, dogs don’t have the same complex level of emotion and self-awareness that humans possess. That means their actions are not intentional or with an end goal of elevating their status within the household while nudging you out of contention. They’re simply reacting to learned protocols. They stretch out on the sofa because that’s where they know you’ll be, and they consider it to be the communal resting spot. They mooch for food because they know you’ll always share with them. And those late-night excursions into the yard have become part of their routine. One that you have likely supported over the days, weeks, months, and years.

So, while you may spot what seems like many of the indicators for this type of personality disorder (manipulative, entitled, unempathetic, and in need of praise) in your pet, these quirky, human-like behaviors are simply learned and can be, over time, unlearned. Understanding that your pet is not capable of self-reflection and evaluation of how his behaviors impact those around him, it’s down to you to gently coax change.

What is interesting, is studies have found that most narcissistic personalities prefer dogs over cats when it comes to choosing a pet. This is because dogs provide them with the adoration and attention they crave. Not so much, the cats. This shows that for dogs, it’s not all about taking. It’s often about giving.

Mary Simpson

Sharing space with three seriously judgy Schnoodles and a feline who prefers to be left alone. #LivingMyBestLife

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While this describes the reason for the behavior, it can become problematic if it escalates to aggression.Common triggers for resource guarding include food, toys, bones, bedding, and specific locations within the home. Dogs may also guard people, especially “their person.”The intensity of resource guarding can vary wildly. Some dogs will exhibit mild displays of possessiveness. Mild resource guarding may involve growling, snapping, or posturing when a person or other animal approaches the resource.However, others will display severe aggression to protect what they see as theirs. This can involve aggressive biting and can pose a serious risk to others. Recognizing the signs of resource guarding and taking appropriate steps to address the issue before it escalates is crucial.Preventing and Managing Toy AggressionOnce you have identified that your dog is exhibiting toy aggression, it’s time to take proactive steps to prevent and manage this behavior. After all, we all want to create a safe and happy living environment for our dogs and the rest of the family. The earlier you address the issue, the easier it will be to modify your dog’s behavior.In the following sections, I’ll offer strategies and techniques to help you prevent and manage toy aggression that I have learned over my many years fostering rescue dogs. By understanding the underlying reasons for this behavior, managing the behavior to prevent trouble short-term, and training for long-term success, you can effectively address this common problem.Early Socialization and TrainingOne of the most effective ways to prevent resource guarding is through early socialization and training, which is excellent news if you’re bringing a young puppy home!Expose your young pup to various people, animals, and environments from a young age. This will help them develop positive associations with different triggers and situations, ultimately reducing their fear and anxiety. It will help them be more comfortable in unknown situations instead of making them feel like they have to step up and protect themselves and their treasured belongings.Positive Reinforcement TechniquesChoosing the right approach to training is almost as important as the training process itself. Positive reinforcement is a powerful training method that rewards desired behaviors and creates positive associations.When your dog displays calm and relaxed behavior around their toys, reward them with treats, praise, or playtime. In time, your dog will begin associating sharing with positive things, reducing the likelihood of aggressive behavior.Why specifically positive reinforcement? Punishing or scolding your dog for guarding their toys can escalate their anxiety, making the problem worse.Basic Obedience CommandsIn addition to focusing on training specifically related to your dog’s resource guarding behaviors, you should continue working on obedience training. Many basic commands, such as “drop it” and “leave it,” will help you manage these situations.Throughout this training, the goal is to convince your dog to trade for something better. Practice these commands regularly, starting with having your dog leave low-value items in exchange for treats. As they show they are more willing to make the trade, gradually progress to higher-value items like toys.You can effectively prevent and manage their resource guarding by teaching your dog to hand over or drop items on cue.Desensitization and CounterconditioningAn extension of your dog’s training, desensitization and counterconditioning are powerful techniques used to help your dog overcome their fear and anxiety. As these feelings can trigger resource guarding or make a situation involving resource guarding even worse, they are important to acknowledge and address.If you have a dog who can share with others in some situations and not others, you will need to find the reason why. 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Can Counterconditioning Help My Reactive Dog?

Caring for and managing a reactive dog can be incredibly frustrating. Your dog may be a sweet angel at home, but they suddenly evolve into a barking, growling, lunging whirlwind when out in public.Luckily, there is hope!Overcoming reactivity is a process that will not happen overnight. However, dog trainers and behaviorists have seen great success with positive reinforcement techniques like counterconditioning.This article will explore how counterconditioning works, the steps involved in the process, realistic timelines and expectations, and tips for a successful journey toward a calmer, more confident dog. Get started today!What is Counterconditioning for Dogs?Let’s start at the beginning—what exactly is counterconditioning, and why is it recommended for managing and treating reactive dogs?Counterconditioning is a behavioral modification technique that focuses on changing your dog’s emotional response to a specific stimulus.For example, some dogs feel fear and anxiety at the sight of another dog. This could be due to a lack of socialization, meaning they weren’t taught that other dogs can be friendly. It could also be a reaction to a past trauma, like having been attacked by another dog. In these situations, counterconditioning can be used to teach your dog that the sight of another dog leads to a positive experience.Why is this an effective approach for addressing reactivity? Reactivity, by definition, is an overreaction to a trigger. While this is often associated with fear or anxiety, some reactive dogs become overly excited. An overexcited dog may jump all over strangers not because they are trying to cause harm but because they are so excited to see them that they can’t control their response.If you have identified your dog’s triggers, you can use this training approach to teach them to respond in a new (and better) way.What Can Counterconditioning Be Used to Treat?Reactivity isn’t the only behavioral condition that can be treated with counterconditioning. This technique can be used to address a wide spectrum of situations in which a pet may be responding to a situation or trigger in an unwanted way.Some situations where it is commonly recommended include helping dogs overcome specific fears or phobias as well as managing or overcoming behaviors related to obsessive-compulsive disorder.Common fears that may be addressed with counterconditioning include: Fear of car ridesAnxiety when visiting the vetNoises (fireworks, thunder)Babies (especially the sound of crying)Strangers or other dogs in publicAllowing guests to enter their homePhysical triggers like cars or bicyclesDogs who dislike grooming, like brushing or having their nails trimmedIf you believe this approach may be helpful in your dog’s unique situation, we recommend speaking with a behaviorist.You can find professionals in your area by browsing the American College of Veterinary Behaviorists website list or the Animal Behavior Consultants Directory by the American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior.

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What Should I Do if My Rabbit Stops Eating?

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How Do I Get Cat Odor Out of the Carpet?

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How to Make a Homemade Thundershirt

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Some of the most common signs your dog is afraid or anxious include: Excessive panting or yawning Lip-licking Displaying their teeth Growling, barking, or nipping as a warning or form of self-protection Showing the whites of their eyes (also known as whale eyes)Cowering or trying to hide Submissive urination Tail tucked between their legs Reluctance to take food or treats Ears pulled backward or pressed forward against the head Shaking or trembling Sometimes, the signs of fear and anxiety will be obvious. However, at other times, the signs will be very subtle. As a dog parent, you must be familiar with your dog’s body language and the early signs that they may be uncomfortable. This will allow you to address their concerns, prioritize your dog’s well-being, and prevent a potentially dangerous situation. How Do Dog Anti-Anxiety Vests Work? If you have never been introduced to an anti-anxiety vest or wrap before, you may be curious about how they work. This drug-free solution uses something called “pressure therapy,” which uses gentle, consistent pressure to signal to the body to release feel-good hormones like dopamine and oxytocin. It’s the same technique behind the use of weighted blankets and swaddling. An anti-anxiety vest or wrap, like the Thundershirt, snuggly wraps around your dog’s chest and abdomen to put pressure in the right places to achieve this feeling of calmness, relaxation, and security. Where Can I Purchase an Anti-Anxiety Vest or Wrap? If you have the budget and time to shop for an anti-anxiety vest or wrap, there are many different options on the market. The brand name Thundershirt is the most commonly recognized brand, but it isn’t the only option. Whether you’re shopping at your local pet store, a big box store, or online, several are available, each with unique benefits. I recommend reading through the different features that set one product apart from another. For example, some anti-anxiety vests incorporate additional calming options like aromatherapy, while others are made from a more breathable material for hot climates or overly active dogs. Here are a few options I have tried and highly recommend: Classic Thundershirt for Dogs Thundershirt Sport for Dogs CozyVest 3-in-1 Dog Anxiety Vest Mellow Shirt Dog Anxiety Calming WrapHow to Make Your Own DIY Thundershirt for DogsEven if you have the budget to purchase an anti-anxiety vest, you may find yourself needing to address your dog’s anxiety before you have time to go shopping in person or wait for an online purchase to be delivered. For example, you may have come across this guide because you are currently trying to calm your dog during a thunderstorm. To make your DIY anti-anxiety wrap, you will need a long rectangle of fabric approximately twice the length of your dog’s body. 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If so, you can take a couple of steps to transform your quick DIY into a longer-lasting solution that you can continue to use for weeks, months, and even years to come. First, depending on your chosen fabric, you may want to stitch the sides to prevent it from fraying or falling apart. This will also create a more polished appearance if you plan on using your homemade anxiety wrap when out in public with your dog. The second upgrade I recommend is the addition of Velcro to fasten it. Use a longer strip of the loop side (the soft, fuzzy side of the Velcro) that runs along the length of the fabric and a shorter patch of the hook side (the rough, scratchy side) on the other side. This will make it easy for you to adjust the fabric's tension and where the sides connect in the future if the fabric starts to stretch out from repeated use.

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PawSwing: Hands Free Grooming Experience Your Cat Will Actually Love

As someone who lives with six cats, pet hair is a daily reality. Skipping even a day of vacuuming means finding tufts in every corner, and lint-rolling myself is practically a ritual before I leave the house. That’s why I was eager – but skeptical – to try the PawSwing: an automatic self-groomer that promises to handle pet hair without fuss. A grooming gadget that works, looks cute, and that cats actually enjoy using? Sign me up!How Does It Work?The concept is simple. PawSwing is an automatic self groomer for cats which provides a 360° combing experience – no electricity required. It is equipped with innovative bionic tongue brushes (which are essentially brushes with short soft bristles that mimic the hook shape of cat’s tongue surface) that are situated on the grooming disc, aka the entrance to a felt box. The disc can be adjusted to suit different body types, so both petite kitties and chonky cuties can get the best grooming experience.

Do Grooming Gloves Work?

Grooming your pet is crucial for maintaining their health and hygiene, especially if you have a dog that tends to shed frequently or spends much of their time playing in the dirt and mud. However, the grooming process can be messy and time-consuming. This leaves many pet parents searching for a more convenient solution.Recently, a new grooming tool has been gaining popularity: pet grooming gloves. These gloves feature soft, rubber nubs on the palms that work like a brush or curry comb, gently removing loose hair, dirt, and dander.But do these gloves live up to the hype? Or are they just another gimmick? Let’s explore the benefits, drawbacks, and effectiveness of pet grooming gloves, including my experience using a grooming glove with my four pets.What Are Pet Grooming Gloves?Grooming gloves are a grooming tool that the groomer or pet parent can wear, keeping their hands and fingernails clean during grooming. It also eliminates the need to juggle a separate brush, with the brush-like nubs built directly into the palm of the glove. As you run your and over your pet’s coat, the built-in bristles or nubs work like a brush to remove loose hair, dirt, dust, dander, and debris.Different brands of grooming gloves/mitts have nubs or bristles of various lengths or styles. Finding grooming gloves best suited for your pet’s coat type is the secret to success. For example, a short-coated dog will benefit from gloves with nubs similar to a curry comb, while a longer-coated dog may need a longer bristle to reach into their undercoat.What Makes the Grooming Gloves Stand Out?You may want to switch from a regular brush to using a grooming glove at least part of the time for several reasons. Here are some factors to consider:Bonding TimeWhile any grooming session offers quality bonding time for you and your pet, using your hand to groom them in a petting motion creates a unique experience. This brings you closer together, allowing you to connect, showing love and affection through trust, which is so important for strengthening that special bond pets and their people share.Cleaner GroomingNot only do grooming gloves keep your hands clean during grooming, as they are protected inside the glove, but they are also surprisingly easy to clean! I’ll break down the steps of quickly and effectively cleaning your gloves later in this article.FlexibilityHave you ever struggled to reach a specific spot on your dog during grooming? Stiff brushes and combs can make it hard to effectively groom the nooks and crannies like your pet’s armpits or, in smaller pets, even around their neck/face. Grooming gloves, on the other hand (or paw), flex easily with your hand.Benefits of MassageIn addition to removing dirt and loose fur, the nubs on your grooming gloves massage your pet’s skin. Not only is this a comforting and enjoyable experience, but it can also have some significant benefits, including removing dead skin, improving circulation, relieving muscle tension, and more.Comfort for the GroomerWhile most of this list focuses on the benefits grooming gloves offer your pet, it’s also a more comfortable solution for you. Holding a brush or comb for an extended time, regardless of how the handle is designed, will eventually lead to cramping in your hand. Wearing a grooming glove allows you to work through a long grooming session with minimal discomfort.How to Use a Pet Grooming GloveWhether you’re interested in experimenting with grooming gloves or making the switch, the first step is finding a pair that suits both you and your dog.Sizing: Most companies offer gloves in various sizes, accommodating pet parents of all sizes and ages, including “junior” or children’s sizes if your grooming routine involves the whole family. If you are shopping in person, take the time to try on different sizes to ensure you are purchasing the one that best suits your hand. For those shopping online, carefully measure your hand as outlined in the sizing guide to find the recommended size.Glove vs Mitt: There is no “right” answer as to whether you should purchase a grooming glove or a mitt. This comes down to personal preference. Gloves will allow you to maintain the use of your fingers, while a mitt can cover a wider surface area.Bristle Style: The most common grooming gloves are made with soft rubber nubs, more like a curry comb than a brush. However, there are other styles on the market. Take the time to explore your options and find the style that best suits your pet’s coat type.Once you have found the right glove, learning how to use them is simple.Spray the silicone or rubber surface of the glove with a bit of water before getting started. This will help collect the fur and dirt instead of letting it fall all over. Place your hand, palm down, on your pet’s coat and gently rub in the direction of their hair growth. Continue with this brushing motion around the body.When you notice that the hair has started to collect in the glove, carefully peel the fur off and dispose of it. Spray the glove before starting again. Continue until you’re happy with the state of your pet’s coat (or until they become agitated and clearly need a break).Is it bathtime in your house? You can also use a grooming glove in the bath to help work the soap into your pet’s coat. This also offers a layer of protection on your hands for those bathing pets that maybe aren’t as happy with the idea of getting wet. Cat parents, I’m looking at you…How to Clean Grooming GlovesOne of the reasons that pet grooming gloves are so popular is the ease of cleaning. Once you have removed the collected fur from the gloves, they can be rinsed or cleaned with soap and water. Allow them to air dry.Remember that a quick rinse may not remove all the dirt and dander they have collected. It’s a quick solution between uses, but a complete clean is needed periodically to keep the gloves fresh and clean.Do Grooming Gloves Work for Cats?Yes! While most grooming gloves are marketed to dogs and dog parents, they are an excellent option for any pet with fur to maintain. I have seen them used for grooming dogs, cats, rabbits, ferrets, horses, and even llamas.

Colorado Cat Gets Stuck in Dumpster, Requiring Elaborate Rescue

A tiny Colorado kitty recently found itself in a precarious predicament, requiring the help of local rescuers and first responders. On Friday, November 15th, in Fort Collins, Colorado, a good Samaritan contacted the Poudre Fire Authority (PFA) about a young kitten who needed assistance. It appeared the kitten had been trying to escape a dumpster through a small opening at the base. Unfortunately, their escape plan didn’t go according to plan, and the kitty’s head was caught. Responding to the call, firefighters assessed the situation and quickly learned this was a much more challenging rescue. Unable to safely navigate the kitten’s head back through the small hole, they recognized that heavy equipment was needed. Of course, as any cat parent can tell you, the sound and vibrations these tools would create while cutting through the dumpster would be terrifying for the trapped victim. “The strong material of the dumpster and tight fit required extremely precise tools often used in vehicle extractions,” the PFA explained in a Facebook post following the rescue. They contacted Dr. Amanda Cavanagh, an emergency veterinarian from Colorado State University’s Veterinary Teaching Hospital. As the head of the hospital’s urgent care service, she was used to dealing with emergencies – but this situation was undoubtedly one-of-a-kind. She gave a sedative to calm the frightened kitten and keep them calm throughout the extraction. She then continued to monitor the kitten’s health while the PFA got to work. The crews got to work meticulously cutting away pieces of the dumpster until the hole was large enough for the cat to slip through to safety. After the successful rescue, the kitten left with NCO Humane in Loveland, where they would recover and receive any necessary veterinary care before starting the search for a loving forever home. While no further updates are available at this time, you can follow the NCO Humane on Facebook. If you want more details about the kitten and their potential to be adopted, contact NCO Humane. The adoption status of the kitten is unknown, but even if they have already found their forever home, there are many other incredible cats in their care.

Is an Off-Leash Park Right for My Dog?

Off-leash dog parks offer a tempting playground for our furry friends to socialize and burn energy, especially if they live in a single dog home. However, not all dogs are suited for this environment.From reactive dogs triggered by the presence of dogs they’ve never met before to dogs that simply lack the etiquette to socialize with others respectfully, an off-leash dog park can quickly spiral into a dangerous and even life-threatening environment if you’re not fully prepared.In this article, we’ll outline the key factors to consider when deciding if an off-leash dog park is suitable for your dog, including their temperament, training, and your own comfort level. Let’s explore the pros and cons of off-leash parks to help you make an informed decision. What Types of Dog Parks Are Available? When people discuss dog parks, they often instantly picture a fenced open field. However, there are many different types of dog parks and exercise areas your pup may enjoy. A basic dog park is exactly as I just described. They are often found in urban areas where dogs may lack yards and other spaces to run around. Usually, these open spaces contain picnic tables for the dog parents who are also visiting to relax. Some dog parks, recognizing the added risks smaller dogs face when their larger counterparts run around the space, have created two separate penned spaces – one for small dogs and one for large dogs. Doggy playgrounds are dog parks that incorporate agility and other fun play elements for dogs to explore and experience. Some examples include teeter-totters, tunnels, playhouses, platforms, and more. These dog parks may also offer a selection of dog toys to enjoy during your visit. Finally, dog beaches perfectly combine an open dog park space and a beach/swimming spot. These are sometimes fenced off, but not always. Dog beaches may be off-leash, on-leash, or a combination of the two with designated sides depending on your dog’s (and your) comfort level. Most dog beaches aren’t fenced, but some will offer this added security feature, with fences leading up to and even extending slightly into the water. What are the Pros of Dog Parks? With so many dog parents getting excited each time a new dog park is announced, it’s safe to assume that these public pet-friendly spaces offer some benefits for us and our pups. Here are the pros you can look forward to when visiting your local off-leash dog park or exercise area: Socialization Opportunity One of the most popular reasons dog parents cite for using dog parks is the ability to socialize their dogs with other dogs and people. When walking our dogs down the street or through the local municipal park, we don’t often know which dogs or people are “dog-friendly,” leading most dog parents to steer clear of anyone else who may use the space. However, when you enter a dog park, the expectation is that everyone within that set boundary is open to interacting with one another. Chance to Meet New Dog ParentsOur dogs aren’t the only ones who struggle at times to meet dog-friendly friends. As dog parents, we all know the challenge of explaining to our non-dog-parent friends why we would prefer to include our dogs in everything we do. If you don’t share your heart and home with a dog, you don’t understand just how special that bond can be. When we walk into a dog park, we know that any people we interact with during our visit are there for the same purpose—to give their dogs the best possible experience. This allows us to meet and connect with other dog parents, which can lead to doggy play dates and other get-togethers. Enrichment and Exercise Our dogs need exercise and mental stimulation to lead happy, healthy lives. While this can be provided at home with the help of snuffle mats, interactive dog toys, puzzle feeders, and other activities, there is something to be said about the joy dogs feel when running with their canine friends. If you have a high-energy dog, this is a good opportunity to encourage them to run, play, and wear themselves out without requiring you to run alongside them. Training Opportunity Are you looking for opportunities to train your dog to interact safely and respectfully with other pups? This can be challenging if you have only one dog at home. However, when you walk into a dog park, your dog will only encounter other dog-friendly dogs (one assumes, more on that later). This is a great time to show them how to interact appropriately without fearing that coming on too strong could trigger a dog fight with a dog-selective or reactive pup. This is also an excellent opportunity to train your dog to interact with people appropriately. People who walk into a dog park are usually dog lovers, so you don’t have to worry about your dog walking up to someone who is afraid of dogs. While this doesn’t negate the need to keep your dog from jumping all over someone without permission, it is a good spot to address your concerns and train your dog on interacting respectfully. Introduction to New experiencesDog parks also offer a safe space for your dog to discover and interact with new experiences. Dog parents may arrive with items that may otherwise trigger your dog – like bicycles, wagons, strollers, children, or people of different ages and ethnicities. Allowing your dog to experience all these people and items in a safe space is a great way to set them up for success as you head out into other areas of the world. For example, if your dog learns that a stroller isn’t “scary” when seeing one regularly coming into their favorite dog park, they are less likely to react to one when walking down the street. Safe from Many Outside Risks We all want to keep our dogs safe when they are playing. Unfortunately, this can be challenging if we don’t have the benefit of a fenced yard for them to run and play. When your dog is playing in a fenced dog park, you can rest assured that you don’t have to worry about outside dangers like your dog being stuck by a car. This alone is reason enough for many dog owners to familiarize themselves with the dog parks at home and in the destinations they are traveling to.

NC Rainbow Bridge Memorial Swept Away By Hurricane Helene Flood Waters

Hurricane Helene has swept across much of the southeastern United States, leaving a trail of destruction in its wake. Homes were damaged, trees uprooted, and lives disrupted. For those in its path, this storm has unapologetically changed life as they know it. Log into any social media platform, and you’ll see heartbreaking photos and videos of the devastation. However, one announcement has broken the hearts of pet parents across the country and around the world – the loss of a cherished rainbow bridge memorial in Lake Lure, North Carolina.

A Pet Kangaroo Got Lost in Texas

There are always so many stories about missing dogs, cats, and even birds, but one thing you don’t hear about is missing kangaroos. Well, it turns out that a pet kangaroo did get lost, and his owners are desperate to find him.

Purina Donates $25,000 For Pets & Owners Impacted by Hurricane Helene

The devastation of Hurricane Helene greatly affected the six states of the American Southeast. Major floods and extremely powerful winds destroyed homes and wiped out entire towns, and help is greatly needed. As search and rescue operations continue across the region, Purina announced a donation of $25,000, addressed to Greater Good Charities, a global nonprofit organization. This donation is meant to support these rescue efforts and to bring food, medical supplies, and other necessities to those who need it the most. However, it will also help to transport shelter pets to safety and to reconnect all the owners and pets that were separated during the hurricane. "Our hearts go out to the families and pets affected by Hurricane Helene and the devastating flooding across Florida, Georgia, the Carolinas, Tennessee, and Virginia," said Kim Beardslee, Director of Community Affairs. "Purina has a long history of supporting communities in the wake of natural disasters, and we're proud to support Greater Good Charities' life-saving work during this time of great need."The nonprofit Greater Good Charities has several teams on the ground tasked with aiding those afflicted by the disaster. They are distributing food, water, and essential supplies to families, as well as veterinary supplies and pet food to pets. What is more, they are now conducting life-saving transports to save shelter pets. Besides their donation of $25,000, Purina is also busy working with several of its own US-based manufacturing plants in order to ship thousands of pounds of Purina pet food and other supplies to shelters and pet owners in the region that was devastated by Hurricane Helene. Of course, this is not the first time Purina stepped up to help those in need. Since 2017, the company has donated more than $400,000 and more than 700,000 pounds of pet food and cat litter. This went out to victims of deadly natural disasters across the United States. And it was their timely support and compassion that helped save thousands of lives.

Rescue Dog Goes on Tour with Pink to Find Forever Home

We often hear about musicians and artists making an impact through financial donations or participating in charitable events. But a new heartwarming story of a dog’s search for his forever home has been capturing the hearts of animal lovers everywhere. Graham Cracker was found by a young girl in the woods of Vilonia, Arkansas, with his mother and littermates. She had been sneaking food to the stray mama dog, trying to do what she could to help. After her mother found out about the dogs, she contacted a rescue team to find them and get the pups to safety. This was when their journey led the pups to The Bond Between, a non-profit rescue organization in Minnesota. But for Graham Cracker, this was just the beginning! On October 17th, an announcement on Instagram revealed that Graham Cracker had found a loving but very unique foster parent. After seeing the young pup’s adorable photos, Grammy-winner Pink invited the pup, who appears to be a Labrador Retriever mix, to join her and her family on tour. She went on to announce the decision to her fans during her St. Paul, MN show:“We rescued a puppy from this awesome organization called The Bond Between. His name is Graham Cracker. He’s currently peeing all over my dressing room,” Pink stated while seated at her piano on stage. “We’re actually – I haven’t told anybody this yet, but we’re gonna foster him for the tour, and he’s gonna go on this big carnival adventure with us.”

What Leash is Best for My Dog?

Choosing the right leash for your dog is an important decision that can affect both your walking experience and your dog’s safety. But with so many different types of leashes on the market, it can be difficult to know which is the best fit for your needs.In this guide, I’ll help you narrow your options and find the best leash for your pup. From your dog’s lifestyle and personality to unique features and considerations, I will explore the many factors that could impact your choice of leash (or leashes) to help guide your next shopping trip.Let’s get started…Why Do You Need a Reliable Dog Leash? A dog leash is more than just a piece of equipment; it’s an essential tool for responsible pet ownership. In fact, it’s one of the first things you should purchase when preparing to bring a new dog into your home. The use of a leash will keep your dog safe and ensure the safety of others. It prevents your dog from wandering off, protects them from potential hazards, and helps you maintain control in any situation. It’s an important tool throughout training and anytime you take your dog out of the house and into public. For reactive dogs and dogs with a high prey drive, this is an invaluable tool. A reliable leash makes it possible to keep your dog (and everyone else) safe while working through the counterconditioning process. Beyond training, leashes play an important role in many dog sports and dog-friendly activities, such as canicross, skijoring, kicksledding, bikejoring, and scootering. Different Types of Dog Leashes There is no denying the fact that leashes play a key role in raising and caring for a dog. However, if you walk into any pet store you will be met with an endless supply of leash options to choose from. How do you narrow down your list and find the best leash for your pup? The first step in finding the ideal leash is to understand the different types available, including the pros and cons of each. Here is a list of the most common leashes: Standard Nylon Dog Leash The most budget-friendly option, standard nylon dog leashes are widely available in any pet store. Nylon leashes can be found in a wide variety of colours and patterns, making it easy to suit your style or your pup’s vibe. You can also purchase nylon leashes in a range of sizes, from shorter 4 ft leashes to 30 ft (or longer) long lines. One of the biggest cons is the amount of dirt and grime these leashes will pick up from regular use. They will need to be cleaned regularly to keep the smell and bacteria away. Biothane Dog Leash These Biothane leashes are made from a coated webbing, incorporating a PVC or TPU coating that makes it waterproof, scent-proof, and easy to clean. When they get dirty or muddy, you can simply rinse or wipe the leash off, and it looks like new once again. This makes them a popular choice for outdoor activities like hunting, hiking, and swimming. They also come in a range of sizes, 4 ft leashes and traffic handles to long-lines. Like standard nylon leashes, they come in a variety of colors with many creators making custom leashes featuring the color or colors of your choice. For example, our boy Lucifer has a red leash with black accents to match the rest of his gear. Leather Dog Leash Finally, one of the most traditional materials used for standard dog leashes is leather. This is a highly durable option that stands up to the wear and tear of regular use. They carry a higher price tag than nylon leashes, but a quality leather leash will last your dog’s full lifetime without needing to be replaced. If you’re looking for a bright, bold colour, a leather leash isn’t the right choice for you. If, however, you love the classic appearance of leather especially as it ages, you won’t be disappointed. They can be purchased in all the standard sizes, including traffic handles, standard 4-6 ft lengths, and long lines. Convertible/Adjustable Dog LeashA type of dog leash that has been gaining considerable popularity recently is the convertible or adjustable dog leash. Available in a variety of materials, colors and lengths, there are options for every style and personality. The biggest difference with a convertible leash is the use of additional clips, buckles, D-rings, and/or O-rings to allow you to switch between different lengths and uses. For example, one leash could potentially be used as a standard walking leash in multiple lengths, a slip lead, a hands-free leash either around your waist or cross body, or a dual leash for multi-dog homes. This makes it a budget-friendly solution for those who may have different needs for different activities or situations. Hands-Free/Running Leash Running leashes are specifically designed with high-energy activities in mind. They are worn around the waist, freeing your hands to reduce strain on your hands, arms, and back. Some running leashes incorporate additional features with the demands of running in mind, such as pockets and pouches to hold your gear and shock-absorbing features to prevent injuries if your dog bolts off in a hurry. Martingale Leash or Slip Leash Designed to provide additional security for nervous/anxious dogs, dogs in training, and known escape artists. They are also a popular choice for dogs with smaller heads like sighthounds whose heads and necks are often similarly sizes, allowing collars to easily slip off their heads despite your best efforts and proper sizing. Both martingale leashes and slip leashes combine a leash and collar in one. They are designed to tighten if your dog tries to pull away while the design incorporates safety features to prevent them from tightening too far causing injuries. For martingales, the tightening loop is only one small part of the collar portion, carefully sized to control how far it can tighten. On the other hand (or paw), slip leads often use stoppers to control the sizing. Retractable Dog Leash Another commonly used leash, despite much controversy, is the retractable leash. This is a leash that coils up a long leash on a spring-loaded spool inside a plastic handle. With the press of a button, the leash can either be released or locked in place. However, many experts caution dog parents about trusting the mechanisms or giving a dog too much freedom with a retractable leash, allowing them to get into unsafe situations. There are several options to suit dogs of all sizes, from smaller leashes that are lightweight and easy to hold for small dogs and toy breeds to larger dog leashes with stronger components designed to handle dogs up to 110 lbs and more.Multiple Dog Leash SystemsDo you have two or more dogs in your home? If so, you likely understand the struggle of juggling multiple leashes when you go for a walk. Multiple dog leash systems are designed to make it easy for dog parents to manage more than one leash at a time. Some double and multiple dog leashes combine multiple dog leashes with the use of a single handle. Others use hands-free systems like cross-body and waist leashes to incorporate a larger number of leashes in a way that a single dog walker or parent can safely manage.

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