Puppy Socialization: Tips for Success

Lisa Selvaggio
by Lisa Selvaggio

You already know that a new puppy needs to be properly trained so they exhibit the right behaviors at home and when out and about, but did you know they should also be socialized?

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Socialization involves exposing your puppy to a variety of places, people, and situations so they’ll develop positive associations with them rather than feel fear or anxiety. All of this can help ensure your puppy will grow up to be friendly, social, and relaxed even when they’re in a new place or around strangers.


Now that you know why puppy socialization is so important, let’s dive into a few tips that will help you successfully socialize your pup.


Start Early and Be Patient and Consistent


When it comes to socializing puppies, the earlier you start, the better. If you’re purchasing a puppy from a reputable breeder or adopting from a rescuer, they should be handling the animals gently to get them used to people. This can start within the first month of a puppy’s life. By interacting with puppies from a very young age (e.g., between 3 to 12 weeks old), they’ll learn to associate humans with comfort, safety, and fun.


The way puppies perceive their interactions with people and other animals at such a young age will have an impact on their personalities as adults. So, if you want a puppy to grow up to be comfortable around a variety of people, other dogs, and other animals, don’t wait to start the socialization process.


In addition to being comfortable in various social interactions, a puppy who is properly socialized will feel confident and at ease when they’re in unfamiliar environments. As you can imagine, this can be extremely helpful in avoiding anxiety and stress when you need to take your pet to a new place, whether it’s someone’s home, a new dog park, or a city they’ve never been to.


Socialization takes patience and consistency, and it’s a good idea to socialize your puppy until they’re at least 6 months old so the lessons will stick.  


Tip: Puppy classes are a good way to train and socialize your dog under the guidance of an expert. So, if you aren’t sure how to go about socializing your puppy properly, consider looking for local classes that can help.


Expose Your Puppy to New Experiences and People


Ease into new experiences so your puppy won’t feel stressed and will instead develop an interest in unfamiliar things (e.g., sounds, smells, items, locations, etc.) and in meeting new people and animals (e.g., children, other dogs, other pets).


Try to find your puppy’s comfort zone, and then slowly push them past that zone as they grow and become more accustomed to experiencing new things. Avoid overstimulating your pup, as this can do more harm and set you back in the socialization process.


Don’t Rush It


At first, you might expose your pup to a new object, person, or place for a few minutes, and then gradually spend more time as they realize it’s safe. If you work on socialization a little bit every day, progress will happen.  


Keep an eye on your pet’s body language, and adjust appropriately (e.g., give them more space or distract them with something positive). That way, they won’t develop a negative association with whatever it is that you’re trying to get them used to.


Signs of stress include pulling back their ears, shaking, whining, and licking their lips, while signs of interest include tail wagging, moving closer to a person or object, and pointing the ears forward. If your puppy is scared or stressed, give them a break so they don’t get overwhelmed.


The Goal Is Positive Associations


Aim to make every new experience an enjoyable one that provides a benefit to your puppy. For instance, have treats available for when they see, smell, or interact with something that’s unfamiliar or strange to them. A product like the Wilderdog Utility Pack makes it easy to pack what you need, including yummy treats, when socializing your dog outside the home.  

Also, start with introducing your puppy to individual family members and friends—not groups of people, which can be overwhelming. Have one person approach slowly while smiling and speaking softly to them. You can even have them give your puppy some treats while petting them or playing with them to reinforce the fact that they don’t need to be afraid. Over time, your pet should become comfortable with meeting and being around multiple strangers at once.  


Tip: Make sure your puppy is properly vetted and vaccinated before taking them to public places and exposing them to other dogs.


Keep It Positive


Remember, socialization is all about creating positive associations with a range of objects, locations, people, and animals, so make these experiences enjoyable for your puppy. Don’t force your pet into situations that are super scary for them, as this can have the opposite effect. Instead, gradually and gently expose them to new things, and once they see that there’s nothing to fear, they’ll be comfortable the next time they’re exposed to those things.


Proper socialization will help your puppy grow up to be curious, interactive, and outgoing. They may be less likely to exhibit anxious, destructive, and defensive or aggressive behaviors, and this can help everyone feel at ease. So, if you’re bringing a puppy into your family, definitely give the socialization process the time and attention it requires.  


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Lisa Selvaggio
Lisa Selvaggio

Lisa Selvaggio is a freelance writer and editor, and our resident cats-pert, with certifications in pet nutrition and pet first aid. She enjoys producing content that helps people understand animals better so they can give their pets a safe and happy home.

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